New Website!
Thanks to everyone who has been following my blog for the last few years - I really appreciate all of the support. I wanted to announce that I have a brand new website and blog (currently featuring one of my weddings from my recent trip to New Zealand) up and running which I would love for you to check out. It's been a long time coming and a real labour of love. When you are so close to the work you have created it can be hard to stand back and objectively create something that represents you, your brand and your personality but it's often the first thing that people get to see as an introduction to me to I hope it is memorable and reflective of the passion I have for my work. It's been amazing looking back over some of the beautiful weddings I have been to, the wonderful people I have met and the incredible destinations I have visited. It's part of an exciting new beginning and I look forward to great things happening this year! I hope you enjoy it.
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Helen Abraham Destination Wedding Photographer
An Intimate London Ceremony
A couple of summers ago I was both guest and photographer at the wonderful wedding of Nick and Pip in Somerset and had the pleasure of sitting on a table with both a friend Lisha and also newly engaged couple Charlie and Tetyana. Now, Lisha is one of my biggest supporters, for which I am eternally grateful! I've covered a number of weddings recently on the back of her glowing reference and she didn't hesitate in recommending me to Charlie and Tetyana there and then. Following the wedding I picked out this sweet moment between them from the wedding:
Disappointingly I was already booked for their full wedding in the Ukraine this month but I was able to join them for the more intimate ceremony at the absolutely stunning Temple Church in central London (which is featured in The Da Vinci Code); one of the most historic and beautiful churches in London.
The warden closed off the church to the visitors and there was an incredible sense of calm and quiet anticipation in this vast space as Charlie waited at the end of the intimidatingly long aisle. There was pure joy in their faces and it was very emotional to have been a part of such a wonderful occasion. And Charlie and Tetyana were the perfect couple to photograph after the ceremony; so happy, easy and relaxed with one another.
Sophie & Tim's Wedding at Dillington House
Sophie has quite a talent for under promising and over delivering. At our first meeting (see engagement shoot here) she talked me through the details of the wedding venue and whilst it sounded lovely she described it as a conference/education centre and so I was overwhelmed when I arrived. It helped that it was a glorious day, but Dillington House has fabulous grounds and has the grandeur you would expect of the former Somerset home of George III's Prime Minister, Lord North. They had also told me about the fancy dress element so I was intrigued as to how that would play out but this has to have been one of the most highly detailed and well planned out weddings I've attended. Sophie and Tim's attention to the finest detail was impressive. Each table, spread across 4 different rooms within the house, had it's own theme including The Great Gatsby, Royalty, Birds and the Bees and Fairy Tales and every guest had come prepared to dress up after the ceremony according to their table.
After the humanist ceremony in the barn all guests went off to change and reassembled at the back of the house for lawn games with the bride and groom making a grand entrance as a Bumblebee and White Peackcock - looking absolutely fabulous. I was so impressed at the effort everyone made to fully embrace the dress code and it made for a wonderful spectacle.
(Engagement photos from Columbia Road Flower Market here).
Sophie & Tim's Engagement Shoot at Columbia Road Flower Market
I try to vary my locations for engagement shoots as much as possible. Every couple is different and I want to ensure that each engagement shoot represents them as much as possible. Columbia Road was particularly busy on this day but we snuck off down some side streets initially until Tim and Sophie were more relaxed in front of the camera then we braved the crowds and went shopping for some flowers, stopping for a few oysters on the way. They were great in front of the camera - very relaxed and natural and fun to be with. Wedding pictures now here.
Chris & Judith's Wedding in Bordeaux
It is definitely one of the perks of my job to be able to travel for work. It gives me such joy to know that I can pack up my camera bag and work anywhere in the world. This year I have done a handful of destination weddings for UK based clients and am looking forward to doing more next year. Chris and Judith chose to marry in France, away from their family homes in Belfast and Glasgow. They found the beautiful Chateau de la Ligne just outside Bordeaux and brought over 60 close friends and family (Chris is one of 9!). From the outset they made me feel so welcome and comfortable and I honestly felt like one of the party - and I think this benefits the photography as by the time of the wedding I knew exactly who everyone was and they were all far more relaxed in front of the camera. It was lovely to be able to capture both the boys and girls and all the family getting ready across the chateau before they went down to the village church for the ceremony which was conducted by their local priest who also came over from Belfast. After the ceremony canapés and champagne were served on the lawn before a meal served in the cool orangerie. They surprised their guests with fireworks over the vineyards as the sunset, and then they were surprised by a video link with Chris' brother who was unable to attend the wedding because he was on tour with his choir in Canada. At this point I slipped off to bed but the laughter continued long into the night.
See the engagement photos here.
Chris & Judith's Engagement Shoot in Bordeaux
Every wedding is unique and beautiful but occasionally a wedding is truly spectacular for other reasons. Judith is a friend of Hannah whose wedding and engagement I photographed in Glasgow a couple of years ago. Having seen my work she contacted me when she got engaged. I was charmed by her immediately and as she told me more about her plans for her wedding in a beautiful chateau outside of Bordeaux. I jumped at the chance. As Judith and Chris live in Belfast we didn't have a chance to meet in advance of the wedding but they kindly invited me to stay for a couple of nights before the wedding so that we had a chance to get to know each other and do the engagement shoot. The Chateau De La Ligne was nothing short of spectacular with vast grounds surrounded by vineyards as far as the eye could see. My room was in the tower of the main building with a cool breeze and stunning views. I had the most wonderful few days and because the wedding was relatively small I had the chance to meet and get to know many of their lovely family members and was made to feel very much a part of the party throughout.
Wedding picture to follow!
Debbie & Gavin's Engagement Shoot in Bristol
I hadn't see Debbie since I was about 14 as far as we could both remember. Our parents are close friends from their military days but we had lost touch a while back. I was so delighted to reconnect when Debbie wanted to speak to me about her wedding in Somerset. We spoke in the loosest sense of the word back at Easter, although I was in the throes of losing my voice, and confirmed the details and finally had the chance to meet up when I went down to Bristol last weekend. I had the most wonderful day, a few hours with Debbie, Gavin and their gorgeous, smiley little boy Jack wandering around Clifton, followed by a lunch with a girlfriend at The River Cottage Canteen, a wander along the harbour at the Bristol Harbour Festival and finally a few drinks with an old friend. The perfect spontaneous, fun filled, sunny day to fill my heart with love and friendship.
Julia and Pete's Engagement Shoot in Camden
Gorgeous Julia and Pete asked to do their engagement shoot in Camden where Julia used to live and where they used to 'court'. We met at 7pm but it was still muggy and hot and everyone was on the streets and in a great mood, not least Julia and Pete who are the most smiley, lovely couple. Julia is a pilates instructor which is why she looks so A-mazing! I love engagement shoots; I get to wander round new parts of town and get to know a couple in a much more relaxed environment. We started off at Camden Town tube and pottered along the canal up to Primrose Hill and near to where I live.
Their wedding in September is at Kensington Roof Gardens. I haven't been there for years but I'm sure it will be a fantastic venue not least because there are pink flamingos up there!!!
Neil and Antanas' Civil Ceremony at Town Hall Hotel, London
There is never a greater pleasure than photographing a friend's wedding - it gives such an intimate access into the day that as a guest you don't have. I was so flattered that Neil and Antanas chose me to be their photographer at their very intimate ceremony and meal at the gorgeous Town Hall Hotel in Bethnal Green. I've both stayed and worked there before so I knew what a fantastic location it would be; a mixture of Edwardian grandeur, art deco and contemporary. Having flown in early that morning from a wedding in Scotland I joined the boys getting ready in their suite. I am usually with the girls for the preparation shots before a wedding so it was a delightful change and full of laughter and absolutely no dramas.
The ceremony took place in the simple panelled Majors Room followed by champagne in the ante chamber and then cocktails in the bar. They had use of the rather dramatic council chamber for the meal - probably the most unusual reception venue I've seen.
It was a gorgeous day and I took them outside for a few shots around the building. They were perfect models and so full of joy and happiness to be together which I think comes through in the pictures.
Sadly I couldn't join them as they headed off to Ibiza the following day as I had to head back up to Scotland but by all accounts they had the most incredible after party.
37 years of marriage and counting...
It was my dear parent's 37th anniversary a couple of days ago. The traditional gift for this number of years of marriage is alabaster, a white gemstone. I was at their house and so asked to see their wedding album again and mum and I were marvelling at the changes in the industry. Back in those days a photographer whom you had never met before would turn up for the ceremony. Capture the signing of the register, the walk down the aisle and then a handful of family and couple line ups. They would be there for no more than an hour or two. Here are a few images of my beautiful parents looking rather amazingly young!
The church was in a little village in Somerset and was a typical Royal Naval wedding with Dad's colleagues forming a sword arch to honour them as they came out of the church and 3 Wessex helicopters did a fly-by back at the reception at Yeovilton Air Station. They headed off for a road trip around Europe for their honeymoon.
When I think about the wonderful relationship I am able to develop with my couples I think that this very much reflects in the intimacy of the images I am able to capture. By the time of the wedding I have had one or maybe two pre-wedding meetings to discuss the couples details and requirements, a pre-wedding shoot so that the couple are comfortable in front of the camera and then I will be with my bride from the preparations on the day right through to the first dance.
My couple will receive at least 500 images in colour and black and white both in an online gallery that can be shared with friends and family but also on a disc to keep and print images as they wish.
Portraits are about capturing subtle emotions between the couple, moments of love and laughter, and of course plenty of portraits of all the friends and family so that when the images are looked through the story is told from the start of the day to the end of the day with all the little moments that the bride and groom may have missed. The expressions of their family as the bride walks down the aisle... the laughter of guests at a table, the delight of a confetti throw. Every couple gasp at how quickly the day has flown by when I say goodbye at the end of the evening. A set of images that allows them to relive the day over and over is priceless.
But back to my parents... I love them so much and thank them from the bottom of my heart for always encouraging me to follow my dreams and for never doubting my abilities and potential when I decided to become a photographer; for giving me the tools of independence and strong work ethic to be able to follow through on this wonderful journey.
David & Fi get Hitched in the Highlands at Inshriach House
James & Natasha's Engagement Shoot at The Hurlingham Club, London
What a treat to be able to wander around the private Hurlingham Club on the banks on the Thames in Fulham this morning. It spreads over 42 acres so we only covered a small part of it but it's quintessentially English with it's grass tennis courts and bowling green. I photographed James' brother's wedding last summer before James' had even popped the question to Tash and was delighted to be asked to do their wedding this summer at Natasha's family home in Somerset.
Thinking about having a photobooth at your wedding or party?
The photobooth has been around for a while and seems to be gathering pace as opposed to being a dying trend. There are so many different types you can have from black taxis and passport photo booth style which print out pictures instantly through to more elaborate set ups with backdrops, furniture set and props. You can make your own by providing a box of dress up, a polaroid camera, book and pen and theme the booth through your choice or props or backdrops. You can either rummage in your local charity shops for props or companies such as Etsy
Alternatively your photographer (i.e. me) may offer this as an optional addition to your package.
Here are a few reasons why I think photobooths work so well at weddings:
1. They usually take place later in the evening when your guests are a little more, ahem, relaxed and in the full swing of the evening. This means they will be ready to perform and it would be a shame not to catch your friends at their most entertaining and creative.
2. Put a silly hat, wig or prop into someone's hand and suddenly the camera seems far less scary and your guests are more likely to pose for a photo rather than ducking into a camera-shy manoeuvre.
3. The pictures provide a great momento for your guests of the evening. I upload all of the images onto a private online gallery that your guests can view and order prints from.
4. It's a source of interactive entertainment for participants and viewers alike throughout the evening.
5. You can use chalk boards to have your guests write messages to the happy couple.
I really enjoy running a photobooth - it is a great opportunity to interact with the guests who I have been photographing all day and capture another side of them; relaxed, fun and often very silly!
Below are some examples of recent booths I've run including in a yurt at Lucy and Simon's wedding at Inshriach House (the team there went all out to help me decorate the yurt with some awesome props) and those with the green curtain are from a wedding party at Shoreditch House. I set up in a corner using what was available in the venue.
I always bring extra lighting and use my professional camera so that the images are as high quality as the rest of the images from the wedding. The images can be edited for a more vintage style and are always supplied in colour and in black and white.
If you are booking me for your wedding then I will set up a photobooth for £250 for 1.5 hours after the first dance. For stand alone photobooths for parties and other events I can provide a quote depending on length of time required and location.
Richard & Che's Wedding at The Jumeirah, Knightsbridge
For some reason I seem to end up getting a lot of event managers as my clients. I am going to take it as a compliment as these are people who know what they want and how to make it happen! Che was no different - she made her decision to book me as we sat around her kitchen table last year discussing the wedding. They had the brilliant idea of doing the engagement shoot at Winter Wonderland in Hyde Park at the end of last year - I had never been but it was great fun and an amazing location for a shoot. I don't do many weddings in central London so it's always a bit of a treat to have one on my doorstep that I can take the tube to! Richard and Che were married in Knightsbridge at The Jumeirah Carlton Towers Hotel. The whole event was managed so excellently by Jayne and Errols from Perry's which in turn made it a very stress free day. Nothing was too much trouble for them and it makes a huge difference to have a planner on hand to manage events. The flowers by Ramels, dancefloor and backdrop by Everything Covered. The cake was by Crumbs and Doilies and the lovely videographers were from The London Wedding Film Company. The toastmaster was Howard Robbins. It was my first Turkish wedding and it was brilliant to see some new traditions. The bride and groom were piped and drummed in, making two turns of the dance floor before doing their first dance - very quickly the entire wedding were on the dance floor. Towards the end of the evening the money pinning ceremony took place - which is kind of as it sounds. There is something wonderful about a community supporting newly-weds at the start of their lives together in that way. 
Richard & Che's Engagement Shoot at Winter Wonderland in Hyde Park, London
I was just writing up a blog posting for Che and Richard's recent London wedding when I realised I hadn't written a post about their engagement shoot! And this is one definitely worth mentioning because of the unusual and creative location they chose for their shoot; Winter Wonderland in Hyde Park. It was the most glorious, blue-sky day and we got there early before the crowds. I had never been before but Che and Richard are big fans and were joined by the rest of their family for a day out. They were a whole lot braver than me and impressively went on the biggest roller coaster in the park for the sake of my photographic demands! It's not open again until November of this year.
Teva & Neil's Wedding at Southend Barns
I had the absolute delight of shooting the very sumptuous wedding of Mr and Miss Smith (now Mr and Mrs Smith - how convenient not to have to change your name!). With Teva being an event planner in Brisbane a wedding presented no challenge to her. I've never seen such a slickly organised wedding - nor such a calm bride, which goes to show that if you fail to prepare you prepare to fail. Or something like that. I'm definitely working on it... On their last visit to the UK they came and visited me at my flat in Primrose Hill and we did the engagement shoot in the garden (see here) and I discovered to my delight that Teva is a natural in front of the camera - and such fabulous cheekbones!
Southend Barns in Chichester is a relatively new venue and already proving hugely popular which doesn't surprise me. Every part of the venue has been beautifully designed with lots of quirky styling and attention to detail and comfort. And the staff were fantastically helpful at all times. Given that it had been snowing the weekend before we were lucky that the weather warmed up enough to enjoy the outdoor areas with guests drinking mulled wine and eating hot roasted chestnuts around the open fires.
Kate at Vintage Style Hire had pulled out the stops and combined with Teva's stunning touches the barn itself was a gorgeous feast of flowers (supplied by Violets and Velvet) and personal treasures and messages of love to be enjoyed by family and friends.
Food was supplied by Field and Fork.
Jo Reid (Make up) and Bethany Alden (Hairstylist) from Blush had the girls looking stunning. Some of the pictures of Teva simply took my breath away. I even took the chance to take a few pictures of Meqa, Teva's sister, for her website. 
Wedding Planning by Katherine Courtney - and 5 minutes with me!
I recently met up with two absolutely fabulous girls with a beautiful creative vision. Katherine and Courtney are the duo behind Katherine Courtney Wedding Planning & Coordination. I'm very excited at the prospect of working with them in the future on both some styled shoots which we are planning, and of course on some weddings this year. They write a wonderful blog as well as being very active on Pinterest with their ideas. They recently did a short piece on me talking about my inspiration and way I view the wedding photography industry. You can read the piece here. I'm looking forward to writing for me soon about the importance of wedding planning.
The transcript for the interview is below:
KC: How long have you worked within the industry?
HA: I have worked in the photography industry for 5 years having retrained after 10 years of working in events and marketing. I used to book photographers for my events and it was always a career I held in high esteem – at the time I never dreamed I could actually become a photographer myself. However, a combination of luck, opportunity and a lot of hard work have turned that dream into a reality and I’ve never looked back.
KC: What inspires your work?
HA: My inspiration comes from a lifetime of travel and experiences and I gain a lot of ideas for poses and techniques from fashion magazines, portrait and fine art photographers and film. My first degree was in History of Art and so I have always had a love of imagery. When working with wedding clients I am often led by them as people and the way in which they love. I take my creative cues from their relationship and how they like to express it.
KC: What three “tools-of-the-trade” are a must have?
HA: My 5d Mk 3 cameras, my Shootsac (essential for carrying spare lenses, batteries and cards when on the move at a wedding) and huge amounts of energy!
KC: Any advice for our brides?
HA: Always meet with your wedding photographer. Your photographer will be close by your side for much of the day and it’s really important that you have a good personality fit. If you have the opportunity do a pre-wedding shoot then this is very useful. I offer this as part of my standard package as I think it’s so important to get used to being in front of the camera and to build a relationship with your photographer BEFORE the big day.
Don’t be afraid to be honest about you want – at the end of the day it’s your day so work with your photographer to ensure you get the type of photographs you want but do listen to their advice – they will have done hundreds of weddings and can be a great source of information about what works and what doesn’t and can guide you in planning a smooth and successful day.
KC: What trends do you forecast?
HA: Wedding photography has changed dramatically over the last 10 years from being very formal and formulaic to a more natural and documentary style. I love that wedding photography has developed into the creative and personal expression it is now and that is why I was attracted to working in the industry. There will always be trends in wedding photography but I’ve always believed in simplicity. I don’t want to use gimmicks in my photography or post production but to capture a scene in the most natural, beautiful way that will stand the test of time.
Polly + Damon's Wedding
Only days after getting back from snowboarding in Switzerland Polly and Damon came together at Islington Town Hall on Wednesday, near their home, to get married in front of a very small group of close family from near and far. I was only with them for a few hours but thoroughly enjoyed their energy and relaxed natures. Even though it was absolutely freezing Polly came outside the hotel for a few minutes to get some lovely shots of her and her sisters.
They finished off their day at Frederick's in Camden Passage.
Stevie & Stuart's Engagement Shoot at the British Museum
Sometimes the terrible British weather can bring fortuitous results - such as a previously arranged engagement shoot at Virginia Water being moved to the British Museum as a wet weather alternative. I am always very happy to try alternative locations for shoots and this was somewhere I have been wanting to shoot in for a while. The light is beautiful, the backdrop stunning and on a Thursday morning not too busy - other than a few bus loads of tourists and school children. After a while I think Stevie and Stuart even forgot they were in a public place and we just enjoyed the space and freedom of this incredible place.
Brides in Galle, Sri Lanka
I've recently got back from an incredible 10 days in Galle, Sri Lanka. It was a country I had always longed to visit and finally after an aborted attempt to go to Cuba in January we booked a last minute trip and were on the plane within days, furnished with a handful of contacts and friends of friends to visit on. I'm going to write more about the trip and the places I stayed in my next blog but this one is a pure celebration of the beauty of the people. Christian left before I had even woken up one morning to go on a jog around the city walls and came back to bundle me into a tuk tuk to hurry down and witness the mass of gorgeous bridal parties who were being guided around the city walls for their professional photographs.
Weddings vary according to religion, region, caste, ethnicity and language and the costumes that they wear reflect this - particularly in the variety of outfits the men were wearing.
Bride: Wears four silk saris (they can vary from the Indian to Kandyan Style) for the wedding celebrations. She also wears a nalalpata, a headband with a gold gem-studded forehead plate, traditionally worn by royal rulers. A mass of chains is worn around her neck. Padakkam (pendants) are an important part of the chains, each having a name – peti malaya, the agasthi malaya and the seri valatu. The earrings, known as dimithi, have the shape of an overturned cup with tiny pearls dangling from two ear studs. Some brides wear armlets to ward off bad luck.
Groom: Wears a traditional nilame (or mul anduma) suit over his sarong and shirt, and atamulu thoppiya (eight-cornered hat).
